I'd Rather Look Good.

I can guarantee that you have probably never met someone who has never been inspired, changed to whatever degree, or moved by the movies.  Whether it was during a specific time in their life, or how relatable it was to what that person was struggling with... every one I know at one point in time was hit, deep in their hearts, by a beautifully written, perfectly shot and produced motion picture.

As I was watching one of my favorite movies again, "Moneyball", a very sad thought ran across my mind.  It was saying, "Andy, look at how these great actors, can act so well, to play these great men and women many long to be like and are inspired by... yet how miserably Hollywood fails in their own lives to actually be like these great men and women they work so hard to play."

I can watch an actor live out a storied life of being the greatest father in the world, a live motion Atticus Finch even (one of the greatest literary heroes of our time), a war hero who never compromised and gave it all for the good of his country and for freedom, or even a 'closest to reality' we've seen of Jesus Christ in live motion picture... then hear about how hard the people behind these films failed to actually live out even a small portion of the characters they portray.  How the mighty have fallen.

There's a laundry list of names of actors and actresses who have fallen into this category, and I'm sure you and I could speak about all the different famous people we know who act one way on camera, and another way off the screen.  And what is the truth here?  Aren't we all imperfect?  Yes!  A wise saying.  This is not the point I am getting at.  What hurts the most, and burns deepest, is that these great actors and actresses spend so much more time, learning how to "act" out a good life, than they spend seeking a life that is 'act'ually good (pun intended).  To repeat, they spend so much time learning how to "act" out a good life, to "walk and talk" like a good man or woman, they neglect the time needed to actually become like these good men and women they "act" like.

And here's the kicker,

We are no better.

I have met time and time again, people who would care more about what others thought of them, than who they actually were behind the walls of their rooms.  I have met people who said they'd rather appear strong, than actually be strong.  They'd rather appear beautiful, than actually be beautiful.  They'd rather appear intelligent, like they've got it all together... then actually live out a wise, humble life.  And this ideal is so important to them, the approval of others, that it so powerfully influences the decisions they make in their lives to the point where they will not only lie to you and me, but even to themselves!  They would rather live a lie than see the truth.  They would rather be lied to than spoken truth to.  How far we have fallen from truth!

I'd like to end with a familiar story.

A Hare was lying comfortably in his shelter one sunny afternoon, deep in the green woods, when a curious and lively Tortoise walked up to him and asked "Would you like to run a race with me?  I have practiced much and would like to see how I fare against a hare.  I dare not presume to be quicker than an animal such as yourself, but if you would be so kind to amuse a friend in the slower spectrum of the Kingdom, I would very much appreciate the gesture!"  The Hare, trying not to show a condescending tone, replied, "Dear Tortoise, it would be a dishonor to me and all the other hares of the Kingdom if I were to race against an animal such as yourself.  When an animal becomes a part of this spectrum of the Kingdom, we do not think as you do.  We must keep up appearances you know.  How silly my fellow hares would think of me to lower myself to race even a tortoise!  They would think I couldn't run or something!"  Truth was, the Hare had injured himself trying to jump a pond that was much too big for him to jump, but couldn't bear the thought of others knowing he was a rabbit who couldn't run anymore.

The Tortoise replied, "But my dear friend, we have never raced before.  How do you know if I am that much slower than you are to warrant ridicule from your comrades?  And I could learn from you, to better my own running in hopes of becoming a faster animal in the Kingdom."  The Hare, trying very hard to sound as if he truly cared for the Tortoise, continued telling the Tortoise more reasons why racing was out of the question.

After they had finished their talk the Tortoise walked off, sad he did not get to race a hare that day.  The Hare, sitting still until the Tortoise was out of sight, sprang out of his shelter and immediately went to tell all the friends of the wood, including and most especially not forgetting those who were acquainted with tortoises, that the Hare was far superior in running ability than the Tortoise, and how laughable the idea was of them racing one another.  He would tell stories of how quick he could run to and fro, even told stories of how he outran foxes and leopards (though there weren't any leopards or foxes in those woods, only hearsay).  The Hare even went as far as to get his close friends, who were just as lazy as he was, to act out scenes of their former races in their days, and the glory that came with being crowned the fastest animal in the Kingdom (when in fact, they were much slower than many of the larger four legged animals).  And though the Tortoise would have understood if the Hare had explained his injury, for tortoises are known to be patient, the Hare was too embarrassed to admit it, and became all the more determined to make sure all the wood knew that he was indeed faster than the Tortoise.

As time passed the Tortoise ventured out to different parts of the wood, meeting many animals and eventually became known around all the Kingdom as a lover of races and physical prowess, that though he never was the champion of any of the races he raced in, he was respected as the humble Tortoise, who helped other creatures realize the depth of their own physical giftings.  And to this day, in many crowds, he is the animal's favorite, just as it is in humans it too is also in animals;  it is always fun to root for the underdog.  

And for months and months, and years and years, the Hare never left his shelter, deep in the green woods, with friends of the wood, telling stories of how superior hares were than tortoises, and telling stories of how quick he could dart to and fro, even outrunning foxes and leopards (though there are not any leopards or foxes in his woods, only hearsay).  And though the Hare was invited many times to join the races, I do believe the Hare is still sitting in his shelter, deep in the green woods, telling stories to the same friends, to this very day.

S.D.G


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